Black Girls Bonding

Doubt Is Not The Enemy

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In this episode, Kianti gets real about something she almost didn't share — doubt. Not the kind that shows up once and leaves, but the kind that follows you into the gym, into your business, into every moment you try to level up. She talks about why doubt isn't something to wait out, but something to work with and how learning to let it fuel you instead of stop you is a daily, uncomfortable, worthwhile practice.

Kianti also gets accountable in real time, sharing a personal goal she's been putting off because it scares her — and why that fear is exactly the reason she's going to do it anyway.

In this episode:

  • Why vulnerability hangovers are real and why Kianti keeps showing up anyway
  • The difference between thinking your way through doubt and doing your way through it
  • Why confidence isn't something you find it's something you build
  • The Eleanor Roosevelt quote that hits different when you apply it to the small stuff
  • What Kianti is scared to try next (and why she's doing it anyway)

Kianti asks you:

  • What dream do you want to see come to life?
  • How are you holding yourself back?
  • What are you doing to get out of your own way?

What Kianti is reading:

  • Kin by Tayari Jones,  a layered, complex read that left her feeling a little changed. No spoilers, but go get it.

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